"MARRIAGE IS NOT...sex. SEX IS NOT...marriage"

                                                                    Marriage is not sex!
                                                                  Marriage is not for sex!
                                                               Marriage is not about sex!

Marriage is a ministry, a fellowship, a union which God created to have man and woman minister love to one another same way as He loves us and from learning to love one another like He does we can breed and extend this love into the world. This love is not physical love. Sex is primarily for reproduction if we speak biology but to mankind, God gave sex as a gift to enjoy in marriage. 

Spiritually speaking sex in mankind is for man and woman to become one. It is not just fluids that are exchanged during coitus but emotions and spiritual strengths, weaknesses, etc.
If sex was that important how would a physically unable (sickness, accident or born that way) couple's (2 shall become 1) marriage be strengthened or how will they become one?
Sex is just an added recreational benefit. Recreation? Yes- playing together as one person I don't have to paint pictures.

The world has perverted sex so much, made it seem like the best thing to have or do that young unmarried people ignore God and indulge in it. And having had that premarital experience affects our view of marriage that we think where there is no sex/no good sex there is no marriage. It has also been made to be the destroyer of marriages- Premarital experiences affecting the union.

So how do we overcome this? How do we become one? Through Prayer together- fellowship together as one unto the Lord. If couples would aim to have Spiritual climaxes and Spiritual orgasms(Lord forgive me for calling it this) praying for one another and the world we would have less divorces, less STD's, less abortions, less crimes, etc.

God's main aim to create man was to bring GLORY unto Him and He realized man had less impact and too much to deal with by himself in Eden (Gen 2:18). And on this point, Marriage is not our ultimate purpose or end as human beings- BEING ONE WITH GOD is. We are not alone like Adam because we have the body of Christ. We have our brothers and sisters so being single is not a curse for we ought to be complete in Christ as no man or woman is the other piece to you.