OUR WEDDING WAS PLANNED BY GOD

 

23rd of March 2013 will forever be the most memorable day of my life together with my husband Paul Nthoba. This day was set and planned by the best wedding planner of all, our Almighty God. Like my dad said the days prior and even on the day: "This marriage happened long before we were even born." He said what was now happening was a public decleration to those close to us.

It has been a while since I have written anything in my blogs due to wedding preparations, post-wedding settlements and running my Fashion and Image business. The hecticness kept me thinking: "How do married, working/entrepreneurs and ministry-dedicated mothers who are also  studying concurrently do all their daily responsibilities?"

Anyway, going back to the topic: My husband and I had been anticipating this day since the day he decided to make him his wife. Well the day he decided to be closer than a friend is the day he decided I am the wife he's been looking for. As scripture says "He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD." (Proverbs 18:22) So basically we did not date or court as we both knew we were meant to be together already. It is not easy to explain it because these things happen differently for everyone.

This blessed day was birthed prior our engagement during our 40 days Prayer and Fasting Partnership. I was not aware at the time when I told my close friend (male) that "the next man who intends to know me or date must already see me as a wife and not someone to hang out with until he finds the one he wants or realizes I am not the one," that I was actually prophesying what was to come. Just a couple of days later I got a call from Paul and we started chatting about God for hours until I was moved to ask him to become my virtual prayer partner. He jumped at the opportunity as he said he too has been searching for a prayer partner. We both did not know on that day that we were going to be Lifetime Prayer Partners.

Fast-forward to marriage and wedding prepartions:

Everything happened smoothly and silently as we kept it sacred between ourselves and God. We put Him first (Matthews 6:33) and requested Him to take full control of our relationship, our parents, lobola negotiations, the wedding day  and our lifetime union (Psalm 127:1). Most people could not understand why we did everything so silently. Everyone caught it later or saw our Facebook Status updates which we only did way after all was done. Why did we do that? Going back to Genesis; "When God saw that it is not good for a man to be alone" (Gen 2:18) and decided to 'create him a suitable helper and presented her to him", there was no one else except the man, the woman and God. And also because God has given us the power to create through our spoken words or tongues (Poverbs 18:25) we decided as led by our Prayers prior our engagement that we will not allow people to speak into our newborn's life(relationship). Yes, good people speak blessings but spiritually-retarded people have too much to say. #TakeNote

We planned everything with God and for God. What we were not looking for was a wedding that will "wowww!!" people but a wedding that will give glory to God. We just wanted what He approved. If He wanted extravagant we would have gone extravagant. In other words there is nothing wrong with extravagant weddings. As long as  God is the centre of everything in that marriage and wedding celebration because after all Jehovah Jirer provides for all the needs of His children (Proverbs 4:19)

We got it as simple as God planned it:

We sat down with God daily going about the budget, the theme, venue choice, menu choice, guest list and even shopping for our garments to designing them as well. He even gave us the idea of the theme just by telling me which fabric and colour to buy. I know it sounds exagerrated. The fabric I bought was the last piece in that colour and when I bought I just liked the colour. I did not buy it for my bridesmaids. I just bought it cos I loved the color. It gave me this beachy breezy feeling. We had a different color scheme planned but I loved how everything flowed in the same color scheme at the end. Okay I will write about the bridesmaids and groomsmen's outfits in my www.foreverfaithcouture.blogspot.com. 

My dress? Prayer and spoken word I am telling you. The price and design as discussed with our Wedding Creator.  My hubby and I already had bought shoes for the wedding but we ended up wearing different ones.

Our Bridal Party

Aka brothers and sisters aka groomsmen and bridesmaids were also God-led and God-chosen. We prayed and asked God whom to request and wowww they were divinely perfect. My bridesmaids are more like my sisters as I received them Spiritually because our genetic connection is in prayer. To honor them I will mention them here: Masego Mokgoro, Lerato Mahlanya, Karabo Ngoetjane and Florina Moerane. The groomsmen are geneologically related to my hubby and mostly Spiritually related to him: His brother Katleho Nthoba; his cousin Mokhantsho Nthoba; his nephew Katlego Nkwane and his brother in Christ Tebogo Sengoai. All these beatiful souls came to their call as requested which was to support us prayerfully as they all understood it was a spiritual mandate rather than a "Let us be beautiful and handsome" or "Let us show the people we rock finesse." They all looked beautiful and handsome on the day. It was a more than skin-deep beauty. I thank God for them because they went beyond showing up their beauty. They helped us with the wedding prepartions. I also thank them because it is only through a willing heart that God can work.

THE DECOR PLANNING

I believe hubby should consider partnering with me in Wedding and Events Designing and Planning
as we are such a great team with God as our CEO. Shopping and designing as we went around was never stressful as we both agreed on everything. "Hmmmmm anticipating decorating our home together." After shopping, I gave him the vision, drew it down together and he ran with it (Habbakkuk 2:2) decorating the venue with the groomsmen and another fellow brother in Christ, Mr. #Steve our MC who stayed the night out helping the gentlemen. I personally dislike DRAPPINGS. My young lady friend, Lerato Kwanaite went in my place as I was still finishing the garments on the day to go add a woman touch in the decor. Our wediing theme was COCKTAIL CARIBBEAN EKASI.

THE STYLING DRESS UP

Shoo this was a Holy Spirit-present preparation as by 10 am in the morning all the garments were still being completed by me, my nails were not yet done, I had not rested and my girls had to become multi-talented from the evening before to the last minute as they had to do my hair while I was sewing on the machine, overlock this and that, sew in buttons in the men's shirts and iron the men's garmentsas well as do their own make up and nails. Thanks to Florina who did our hair helped by my sweet voice singer friend Ruth Mofokeng. Florina also did all our nails for free with mine done just minutes before rushing to the venue for the matrimonial service. I only got to see myself on the mirror as we were leaving. The guys had sent my brother-in-law to come pick up their attires an hour before event. LOL! I had no stress as I rejoiced with my ladies singing praises and praying throughout.

DRIVING TO THE VENUE

Hear this: We never thought about transport to the venue and around but just an hour before leaving my aunt arrived with her daughter in her car and son-in-law in aother one. We also had my other sister's and another aunt's cars to ferry us. Well we did have two of my girls cars and our Smarty but we were blessed to be driven in four cars. God is the best planner!!!! (Jeremiah 29:11)

 

ARRIVAL AT VENUE

Two hours later than the invitation stipulation and an hour later as communicated with our Marrying Pastor we arrived. It was a Spiritual experience that felt like I dream as I saw everyone waiting for us and welcoming us, cameramen and all. My girls looked gorgeous like they just bathed in milk and perfume. With my beautiful nieces as my flowergirls walking in front of me and my dad holding my hand leading me, I was blown away by how it looked. At the same time seeing my husband all stylish and different as I love him, with family, relatives in the Lord and childhood friends looking so joyful with their cameras snapping at us. I could not help but let the tears in my heart soak me inside. It was as we prayed and spoke together with my hubby and God our Planner (Isaiah 48:17).

I remembered how whenever hubby was asked for any prayer requests, his was for our wedding to minister to all those who will see it and those who were not there. As we prayed and spoke we received

THE GUESTS/INVITES

Many were not invited not by choice but by prayer. Not that those who were not invited were not chosen by God but rather those who were present were there as willed to receive from God, to witness and to support us prayerfully. We wrote down names, cut down the list and got back to even more people than we planned. Our parents kept asking how many people were coming. They too got a request not to invite everyone in their lives. Some who were invited and had RSVP'd did not come due to personal reasons and God's will. Some were invited as and when we bumped into them even days before the event and because they understand the purpose of weddings they came with love. Till today we are still explaining and apologizing but we know they too will understand when they get to where we were.

THE CEREMONY

Woww...this one requires a blog on its own as my Dad sang:"You just call on my name and you know wherever I am. I'll come running...." reminding us Paul and I are each others' lifetime friends. My mother-in-law rocked the reception with some rap showing us where Paul inheritted the skills and talking about me words that humbled me. She even spoke my new name which came prophetically through our marrying pastor and as she says from my God-given character. Believe me  I prayed for a prophetic name and got that. Glory to God. Paul's brother showed his dancing skills as he came doing a Sotho Dance and Singing. My Beloved friend, Lerato cried joyfully as she spoke about our journey together as sisters. Paul's friend also sang a gospel song. This was a Family's Talent Wedding with a cake to go with it.

We were blessed by the sweet melodic singing by Ruth Mofokeng who sang Chrisette Michelle's Golden as I walked in with my dad. She also sang my childhood favourite gospel song "Ha le mpotsa Tshepo ya ka" and a song I sang with her "Count on me". Thanks to Bhekinkosi Hlatswayo's giving of his God-given musical talent as he played the keyboard for our wedding. We were also blessed with poetry by another friend and brother, Thibe Pooe who ministered through his poetry in Setswana and English.

Our MC and Programme Director, Mr. Steve Dikole was also a blessing in many ways thanks be to God. He helped us keep time and did a great job oh yes and being there even the night before. Our friend Mothopi Matli gave us the Word for the day and a lifetime. God bless his soul.

Our photographers Lefedi Radebe and his partner Tshepo did a beautiful job and making the shoot enjoyable as my hubby and I love pictures. Ooh the end product is "Oh so heavenly". They captured everything from venue preparation to the the last speech. Wowww!!! Thanking Mr. Jeffrey Zulu and wifey (Paul's friends), Linda Mabusela (our sister in the Lord) and Sechai (our brother in the Lord) for ferrying us to the photo session venue and back in their cars.

THE CAKE!!!

Asked only 3 days before the wedding (yep we never planned this, God did as we had planned the wedding cake for later celebration) my sister in Christ, Molebogeng Nghondzweni baked us a Devine Wedding Cake. And with the little time she had she gave us a prophetic cake topper!!! A microphone on top!!! I am not for the usual common "what-everybody-does" I did not want toppers in a suit and wedding gown. I asked her for something that describes us and ...with a singing father, rapping mother, rapping bride and groom, singing brother and all ...it was PERRRRRRFECT. Mmmmmm and it tastes devine as well. It was a beautiful gift from the Nghondzwenis. God bless them.

Everything happened as we prayed and spoke together and always to and with God. Everyone who helped was not just God-sent but God-chosen. Even the people who helped our families in preparing the meals. This point being a  specific thank you to my young sister and friend Lesego Tau who sacrificed her Friday night before an early morning Saturday school to help my mom, sister and cousin.

The cutlery and crokery we used were given to us by our blessed sister and her business partner, Ausi Mpumi and Bessie Monchusi (not related to me. I say given because she whole-heartedly hired them out at almost nothing. Glory to God.

Oh no how can I not mention our younger brothers and sisters in the Lord from Children's Church and their friends who were excellent hosts at the wedding. I can never thank them enough for their big hearts: Kwanele, Kgaugelo, Pinky, Nhlamulo, Nhlanhla Ming, Nhlanhla, Mothopi's niece and Lerato Kwanaite.  May God increase your prosperity and godly influence. I love you all.

Thanking our Children's Church teachers for the Surprise Bridal Shower, love, prayers and presence; our sisters and brothers in Christ from ...Unlimitted (youth ministry), JOY (singles ministry), the Pre- Marital Counselling Department, our church Grace Bible Church, our childhood friends and most importantly our parents and siblings who went along with a seemingly craziest wedding theme ever(Imagine a wedding without 'dikuku le gemmer' -that's cookies and ginger ale). All this is thanks to the Lord and a testimony that if you put first His kingdom and His righteousness, all these shall be added unto you.

Closing this post that sounds more like a thank you message (which it is), Paul and I pray and hope every person young and old realizes the blessing that comes with waiting, marriage and putting God first in everything. We are already anticipating our 50th Wedding Anniversary Celebration with God! Good people choose to do what God wants and shun all that He calls evil and see how He will faithfully deliver on His promises. (See Deuteronomy 28:1-2, Psal 37:4, Psalm 37, Jeremiah 29:11)

                      To God be the Glory!

A CAN'T GET CAN'T THOLAKALA WIFE

Proverbs 31:10-12 "
 
10 A wife of noble character who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.

11 Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value.

12 She brings him good, not harm,
all the days of her life."


Being a wife of a noble character is being a "can't get, can't tholakala" wife. Women's characters have been changed by the world to be too independent, too masculine, too sexy and too worldly. The word tells us to not be conformed to the patterns of this world (Romans 12:2) yet most women have conformed.

As a woman I must preserve my God-given woman's values and character. I must watch how I dress. Am I noble or too sexy? Does my personality, character and behaviour command respect or ooze SEX APPEAL?

When out of my husband's sight is he confident that I am his wife and only his or am I such a flirt that he worries thinking about other men's hands and eyes all over me? Even if you are not yet married or have been found by the right one you must always view yourself as someone's future wife. Men are visual visionaries believe me. How they see you now is how they picture you as a wife and mother. So introspect and review your behaviour, character and dress now. Do you really think being a hot, sexy mama who drinks like a man will really build a healthy family and children with good values? Seriously renew your mind, reform your thinking and change your wardrobe.

A wife of noble character not only respects her husband or body. She respects his and her parents and family as well as strangers. She does not treat people like dirt. Even a filthy-looking homeless person deserves respect because he too is a child of God. Even a dog does not deserve ill-treatment so a woman of noble character has a good heart for God's creation.


Be the kind of woman that can never be compared to those the world calls bootyliscious, sexy, gold digger and all the words you cannot find in the Bible. Be the kind of woman that will drive people to search the scriptures in order to find your comparison. Not the kind they just turn on the telly and find exposing and moving what ought to be covered and kept for your husband alone.

Having been once upon a time the sexy, most desired and wanted woman who was any man's festival of fantasies should not be your end or condemnation. Let it be of the past. Put on the new you, cover yourself up in the Lord and with proper clothes, wear dignity with love, kindness and respect. Believe me even those who have seen you barely dressed will forget that, embrace and respect the noble woman you are now.

Read and CONFESS Proverbs 31: 10- 31 in the first person daily and believe it. Make it your daily  wash, tone and moisturizing scripture:

 "I am a wife of noble character who has been found by my husband
  I am far worth more than rubies.
  My husband has full confidence in me
   and lacks nothing of value.
  I bring him good, not harm
 all the days of my life...."

Continue with the scripture in that way and see it work far better than any beauty or diet product. That is the word of God. It works beyond the physical.

Woman, You are a wife of noble1 character a can't get, can't tholakala2 wife.

Noble ¹ 

Definition: Possessing eminence, elevation, dignity, etc.; above whatever is low, mean, degrading, or dishonorable; magnanimous; as, a noble nature or action; a noble heart.

Can't tholakala

Definition: Cannot be found, hard to get

WHAT I RECEIVED THIS MORNING/ 05/02/2013: SSTTOPP: Still Silent Thankful Trust Offer Praise Pray

As usual I was praying this morning for today and God started telling me this:

We have become too relaxed. We have become scripture-spitting christians but we do not really live this word we confess daily. We say no weapon formed against us shall prosper while the enemy is encamping us in our comfortable lives because we have decided not to fight as we know God is with us. We call ourselves conquerors but we are not out fighting to conquer.

We have become so busy in our days that we do not give God time, saying we have deadlines or phones are busy while our employers and colleagues stop between 12pm- 2pm to worship their gods; calling our names as they do that. We have sacrificed our children allowing them to be raised by the enemy through media and fashion.

We have become so relaxed that even when the warnings are out there we Christians are the ones who say: "Ag everything is called evil, everyone who is successful is called Satanic. What must we watch, wear, eat or listen to?" When we know well that God said we must not conform to the patterns of this world but be transformed by the renewal of our minds.

Yes we do pray and read the word as we should. We do all means not intentionally sin but are we sure we not blinded by our own self-righteousness?
We have become so occupied on our computers, cellphones, social networks, work, hobbies, relationships, family outings that we have no time to PRAY. The order is PRAY WITHOUT CEASING. Bazalwane we need to be deliberate. We need to start a MOVEMENT FOR GOD. Let us SSTTOPP! (Still Silent Thankful Trusting Offer Praise Pray.)

S> STILL

Stop what you are doing deliberately. If at work go to the loo. Smokers always go out but Christians always have excuses. If you are in a taxi or with people zone out. Be still

S> SILENT

Shhhh... Stop talking, stop chatting(social networking). Be silent in your mind as well. Be ready to hear God.

T> THANKFUL

There's so much to thank God for. The past hours He's been with you in that day. The good news you heard about someone else. The dry bread that you had for breakfast. Just thank Him.

T> TRUSTING

Trust God in everything. Trust Him that you will not fail Him. Trust Him that somewhere someone is standing in agreement with you. Trust Him that someone somewhere is getting saved, rescued, fed or healed as you pray. Trust that you are His vessel.

O> OFFER

Offer your time deliberately, offer yourself for God to use you. Offer your strength, money, etc to bless others.

P> PRAISE

You know how to praise. Make this time a praise time.

P> PRAY

Pray for others. Intercede. Pray for your employer, non-believers, media, the influencers in the world, children's innocence. Bind spirits that are freely roaming in our world posed as entertainment, cartoons, lifestyle, etc.

I cried as I prayed as God showed me how we daily sacrifice our children by allowing them liberty to have what the world gives. Our children walk around with things in their ears, pants hanging, skin exposed, bodies pierced or tatooed, hair cut in ways that look odd. Yet we know its not right and when we are corrected we become defensive.

We deliberately dance and dine with the enemy quoting scriptures like Psalm 37:23-24, saying how much we have become new and how we cannot make ourselves righteous. We have banked on the grace of God. We say God understands, He is merciful to His own.

Our babies are exposed to the enemy's doorway, making TV a stimulant or a baby sitter. Our sons' imaginations are filled with possibilities of them turning into something else that can fight or kill through what they watch or play. Our daughters are obsessed with looks and fashion and wanting to either look like a doll, a princess, a kitten or a music star.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                     
 

 Bazalwane, we can say we can't get everything right but we can get prayer right. Satan knows our timetables. The
beginning of every year we religiously meet, write down prayer points or resolutions and not eat(fast). Are we really in it? Are we doing it for God's will or for our desires for the year to come to a pass? Do we really deny ourselves or is this part of our annual diet/detox plan?

We say we are in God and He is in us. Are we aware of Him or has He become so much of us that He is like an organ or body part? Do we deliberately involve Him and speak to Him without ceasing? Or do we only remember when we face challenges? Like we remember the head when it aches?

Christianity is not a status, not lifestyle, not a club but a CALLING. A calling to WORK. A calling to FIGHT! Yes Jesus conquered and died for us but we are still at war. Non-believers are not just chilling at dinner tables, they don't take 10minutes off to respond to personal emails... They use oPportunities. They are forever working, worshipping what they believe, summoning spirits to control you, giving you so much work that you are not aware you've turned God into an innate object. Where is God in our day to day? Did we leave Him in our bags? Are we sitting on top of Him? Did we leave Him at home when we prayed or in the car? Where is God?

We are so good at writing down prayer points, visions (Hab 2:2) but are we living up to that? When we dress our kids in the morning do we tell them that we are dressing them in the full armour or is it just an opportunity to teach them just about color? When they eat do we also feed them the word?

Our neighbours are dying, our relatives are killing each other or divorcing, babies are aborted or abandoned. Our friends and children are getting infected through fornication, perversion, drug and alcohol abuse and non-stop partying while we are enjoying our calm, warm, loving homes and good meals. While we sleep or study from 12am to dawn Satanists are deliberately gathering, killing, sacrificing, worshipping Satan.

We have become word-confessing Christians but the word says: "Faith without works is dead." Are we living and doing as we say? We sing beautifully but are we hearing the words of the song? Do we mean what we sing or are we just flowing with the melody?

There's so much I got this morning. The order is 1 Thessalonians 5:17: "Pray without ceasing." And that we must be DELIBERATE CHRISTIANS. Srikers deliberately stop working and go march and toyi-toyi! Christians this is an order. This should be a movement:
SSTTOPP!!!!

Be...

Still
Silent
Thankful
Trusting
Offer
Praise
Pray

Between 12pm -2pm all Christians must find time in those hours with a minimum of 10minutes as well as at night between 9pm- 3am (people have different sleep times) to SSTTOPP.

Glory to God!

God is Here (Sweet Anointing)-

FINANCIAL PROSPERITY STARTS FROM HOW YOU MANAGE YOUR FINANCES

by Faith Monchusi on Friday, January 21, 2011 at 7:49am ·

My beloved friends, this note below is one of those emails I send to clients and I happen to get drawn into giving advice I didnt plan to give. This just happens and I never stop it with special clients(friends). I trust you can get something from it. I used the opening to the email as my satus update yesterday.
Good morning sir

It is a pregnant year for all those who have hope in the Lord. If He has promised you restoration, restoration you will get. If He has promised you healing receive it in Jesus’ mighty name. If you prayed for a job or a new job, you are getting that job. If you have been hoping for a lifetime partner you are getting married this year. If you have been believing God for financial emancipation, receive your breakthrough!!!!!

The best advice you can give your children is to save money and not spend it. Sit down with them; show them how much they can accumulate from putting away so much daily or weekly. All of them must have savings accounts. Teach them that when they have accumulated so much not to spend it until they work (student work) than they upgrade from savings to student accounts than to long term investments. This is one thing makgowa ba re phalang ka yona. Rona boDarkie we just want to save for deposit ya koloi (at least R20 000). We fail to wait until the money is enough for a bigger deposit for lower installments. How many black girls/women under the age of 25 that you know drive cars? My mom always said after the car there is a baby on board sticker.

When we’ll we learn to save? When we’ll we learn that 10% of our income (salary for most) belongs to the Lord? After we have gotten deep into debt and having no investments? As a father I ask you please do not let you children go in that direction. I say this because I know if my mother had taught me how bad credit is, and how important it is to save, I would be better off. But I am glad I know God comes first in my finances because it is His money and it is Him who provides for me according to His glorious riches in Christ.
I pray that I teach all this to my children. I want to teach them to be good stewards of finance. I also want to teach them how purity allows prosperity to flow in every part of their lives for the body is the temple of God (story for another day).


Where there is no vision, the people perish:
 but he that keepeth the law, happy is he.
(Proverbs 29:18)

2012 CLOTHED ME WITH HUMILITY by Zama Buthelezi

I met Zama Buthelezi in Daveyton at the Best Man and Woman I Can Be Forum conference in July 2012, where I was invited as a speaker by Lonwabo Maseko (founder of Best Man and Woman I can Be) and me and my husband's friend Gordon Ronaldo Mazibuko. Zama is a well-spoken young woman who's passion is for young women to know who they are and what their worth is in God's eyes. She also invited me as a speaker a in October to address the young women she is building at the University of Johannesburg in Kingsway, Auckland Park, Johannesburg.

What moves me about Zama is her realization of what her purpose is at her tender age of 22 as I remember when I was her age I thought my purpose was to make a man who cared less about me to realize I am the woman for him. And luckily for me that was not God's plan for me. She is an inspiration to the young women who's eyes are opened and who's vision is to change the world and not really their material standing. Zama is not just a motivational speaker but a good writer as well. This time let me write less and allow you an opportunity to read from someone younger and fresh in order for you to realize the power of being in God and knowing yourself.  I enjoyed her writing and know you will too.

Check out Zama Buthelezi's article in www.http://joyofsalvation.tumblr.com/http://joyofsalvation.tumblr.com/

Zama wrote:

It is that time of the year when we all begin to reflect on the past and view how this year has treated us; some will have positive things to say while others just want this year to be over and begin a fresh. For me it has been an eventful year that has brought about experiences that groomed my character more than anything. As I was writing God told me to delete all that I had written and instead of preaching the word I should rather share on what the word has done in my life, so this is by far my most personal piece to date.
2012 didn’t start of with a bang for me at all. I entered the year while I was still working at a retail store, I hated getting up and going to work, I dreaded the experience each and every day and I would spend more time glancing at my watch checking when it will be lunch time and then knock off time than I spent time engaging with my colleagues or customers. I had no other choice but to fulfill the terms of my contract as it was part of my bursary terms and conditions to do vacation work during the June and December holidays. I felt as if I was above the job and store I was placed in, I had just recently graduated so I was even more livid having a degree and working in such a store. I felt as if I was more articulate than my fellow colleagues and smarter and because I spoke English with a Model C accent I was better than them as most didn’t even matriculant. Just after my contract had ended I stayed unemployed for 7 months.....

 Continue to read in
www.http://joyofsalvation.tumblr.com

SHORT SNIPPET ON ZAMA IN HER OWN WORDS:

"I am a driven and ambitious young woman. I always thrive for excellence in all I do. I believe in being the change that I want to see in this world. I love being busy as stagnation is the one thing I loathe the most." taken from her profile and blog in http://www.butheleziz.blogspot.com/

"Gal wif a lot of 'tude...i js spk my mind n i do wat i do cz i always do it best
I am a young woman hu is always after Gods own heart he is my everything and without him I am nothing! I'm a strong willed n very ambitious person n I'm driven by success!
Looking gud is an occupation,1 I can work 9-5 n overtime if I must!I js love me#NoVanity!jst confidence" taken from her Facebook profile.

MY FIRST...BELOVED

You are my first...
The first warrior to pray for me
The first heart beat I felt
The first voice I heard
The first beautiful face I saw
The first soft skin I felt when I felt the first embrace
The first hand that fed me and first one to wash me
The same first hand that smacked me out of love
The first eyes that shed tears for me and still does
The first one to rejoice over me and my triumphs
The first to comfort and support me when needed
The first to nurse me and always first to rush
And sit by my bed in hospital
The first friend I had and still are...

Happy birthday my beloved angel. My beautiful blessed kind and God-loving mother.

Today we celebrate you for on this day a beautiful soul was born. Thank you for all that you instilled in me: Love for others, kindness, respect, reverance for God and self-respect. Thank you for always being there when I need a friend to go anywhere with. You've been my date at a function. You bought my first lingerie (not just underwear) an a Valentine's Day gift when I did not have. You are the sweetest, most patient, most understanding and tolerant person I know.

Your faith in God blows my mind. You are a living testimony on two legs. You survived the worst life could give. I am blessed to be your daughter. Even if we would differ in thought you will never force me to go with your choices or opinions. You taught me to independently make good decisions by figuring out right from wrong.

I thank God for you. I thank God for choosing you to be my mother. You are the best and may this day on which you were born be a happy blessed bithday <3 <3 <3

I know I am not talking for me alone but for Makgomotso, Kgosana and our departed Kabelo.

I love you Mama.
Ke nna morwadiwagago
Kebone(BogoloBaModimo) Faith Monchusi..

ForeverFaithful